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Posted by on Sep 13, 2017 in For Families

How to teach your children a lesson

How to teach your children a lesson

 

One of the most difficult things when it comes to the relationship between parents and children is related to discipline. There are parents who make mistakes when they try to teach their children a lesson. However, if you feel the same, with the help of our tips and tricks, you will be able to handle things easier. But, first comes first. Let’s try to make things as clear as possible.

The difference between teaching your kids a lesson and grounding them

It goes without saying that everybody makes mistakes. Just think about your day to day life and ask yourself: are you the perfect employee? Are you the perfect friend? Are you the best husband/ wife or parent? If the answer is no, do not ask your children to act like angels because you will feel nothing but disappointed. Let them go wrong and then, help them understand which are the right things to do.

The most important part is to communicate with the little ones and use the right words for explaining the situation. If the child is too young to understand, you can apply some small tricks. Offer them a small prize every time they make something good. But be aware not to spoil them too much.

On the other hand, teaching children a lesson also means showing them that admitting it is an act of courage. Also, the next step is searching for solutions.

Top mistakes made by parents when they want to teach their children a lesson

They make comparisons with other kids. This behavior is nothing but wrong. You do not have to compare your child with anyone. Everybody is unique. Just think rationally. Maybe, your kid is not the best when it comes to chemistry or maybe he/ she is not the best dancer. But he/ she enjoys reading, singing, and he is friendly, kind and respectful.

Not showing empathy. Even if the fault is not yours, try to put yourself in your children’s boots. This will help you understand which was the reason why your children took such a wrong decision. Also, instead of thinking about grounding them, ask them what they think about this situation. Make sure that finally your little ones understand the consequences and make them promise you that they will not repeat the same mistake again.

Pretending to be perfect. Parents have the tendency to do that. Show your children that you are not the enemy and also that you are not perfect. However, do not worry! Even if you show them your mistakes, you can still be a role model.

Do not yell! When you feel like you are about to hit the roof, you will feel tempted to yell at your little ones. But this is nothing but wrong. You will only manage to scare them and they could end up being afraid of telling you about their problems and mistakes. Therefore, instead of doing that, take a deep breath and try to calm down. If you want, you can take your children for a walk in the park. This would help you all calm the spirits. And then, you can talk quietly and focus on solutions.

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